Author Archives: Pat Milland

From Abuse to BEing Heard… and Hearing

It’s been far too long since I’ve posted on my blog. Frankly, feeling sorry for myself, I doubted anyone cared, that anyone would want to hear what I have to say. Nothing like manifesting what I believed to be true. … Continue reading

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Giving up on hopes and dreams…

It never dawned on me to consider giving up on my hopes and dreams. To be honest, I never really made a point of consciously sitting down to create any.  What I did was survive. So I stop and I think about it. … Continue reading

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Is it easy to say No and feel certainty?

“It’s easy to say no when you feel certainty.  It’s easy to be confident when you feel certainty.”  Andrew G. Wall, The Science of No “I act with complete certainty. But this certainty is my own.” ― Ludwig Wittgenstein, On Certainty … Continue reading

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The Sun Never Says

I posted this to Blogger  on Feb 8th/12 and thought it was on my site.  It appears I need to  blog more often to see I’ve done – or it wasn’t suppose to be here until now…   February 8, … Continue reading

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Only One Step Ahead…

Recently I experienced yet another self-development shift and deep self-awareness.  This time it was about facing my fear of not believing I was good enough professionally.  Through a lot of synchronicity (surprise!) I found Max Simon (http://bigvisionbusiness.com/) who told me that in order … Continue reading

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When belief systems take a hit!

The Sun Never Says Dr. David Simon, co-founder of the Chopra Center and partner of Deepak Chopra passed January 31 after a 20 month journey with brain cancer. David was a leader in mind/body health and I recall him saying … Continue reading

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Grieving?! Really?!!

You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present.  ~Jan Glidewell What am I really grieving?  Is it really because I want what I thought we had?  Was … Continue reading

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I Cry – a poem

‎“Everybody matters. Everyone just wants to be heard.” – Oprah I cry Who Am I? I cry Can I really be who I AM? I cry Help me I cry I am helped I sigh Ahh, there you are I … Continue reading

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Is it just dirt?

“To the illumined man or woman, a clod of dirt, a stone, and gold are the same.” Bhagavad Gita I am reading, again, Deepak Chopra’s, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success, this time with the intention of implementing the laws into … Continue reading

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Eradicate or Embrace?

Bottom line – life is tough.  Scott Peck begins his book The Road Less Travelled with this thought.  Buddha says it’s one of the Four Noble Truths. (Life is suffering.) And? I pride myself on taking responsibility for my behaviours … Continue reading

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